姑
mother-in-law
Readings
On'yomi
- コ
Kun'yomi
- しゅうとめ
- しゅうと
- おば
- しばらく
Meaning
姑 centers on a woman related by marriage, specifically a mother-in-law. The other meanings (father-in-law, aunt, temporarily) are less common and may be context-dependent, but the core idea is a female in-law.
Most common words using 姑
- 麻姑まこ
Ma Gu; legendary Taoist immortal with long talon-like fingernails
- 姑しゅうとめN1
mother-in-law
- 姑息こそく
underhanded; unfair
- 慈姑くわい
Sagittaria trifolia var. edulis (edible variant of threeleaf arrowhead)
- 小姑こじゅうと
sister-in-law
- 因循姑息いんじゅんこそく
dilly-dallying and temporizing (temporising)
- 外姑がいこ
mother-in-law (of the husband)
- 大黒慈姑おおくろぐわい
Chinese water chestnut (Eleocharis dulcis var. tuberosa)
- 姑娘クーニャン
girl (esp. Chinese); young unmarried woman
- 姑洗こせん
(in China) 5th note of the ancient chromatic scale (approx. F sharp)
- 嫁姑よめしゅうとめ
daughter-in-law and mother-in-law (relationship, conflict, etc.)
- 嫁姑戦争よめしゅうとせんそう
conflict between a bride and her mother-in-law; bride and mother-in-law war
- 小心姑息しょうしんこそく
timid and evasive (person); timid and makeshift (approach, measure, etc.)
- 白慈姑しろぐわい
Chinese water chestnut (Eleocharis dulcis)
- 舅姑きゅうこ
parents-in-law
- 麻姑掻痒まこそうよう
things happening exactly as one pleases (wishes); someone being very attentive to one's wishes
- 黒慈姑くろぐわい
Eleocharis kuroguwai (species of spikerush)
Study
Etymology
姑 combines 女 (woman) with 古, which likely contributes the sound and may relate to the idea of an older female relative. The exact historical development is uncertain.
Meaning mnemonic
A woman (女) who is old (古) in the family: think of the traditional mother-in-law figure.
Reading mnemonic
For コ, imagine a mother-in-law who is always saying 'co-co' like a hen clucking around the house: co -> コ.