Translation guide
This English idiom describes mutual cooperation or reciprocal exchange of favors. In Japanese, the concept is often expressed through set phrases, proverbs, or direct statements about mutual help. The most natural equivalent depends on context: formal vs. casual, and whether you want a proverb or a plain explanation.
Express the idea of 'if you help me, I'll help you' or 'we help each other'
A common idiomatic phrase meaning 'give and take' or 'mutual dependence'. It implies a balanced, ongoing relationship of mutual support. Suitable for both casual and semi-formal contexts.
Business is a matter of give and take.
With friends, a relationship of mutual support is important.
Literally 'we're both in the same position'. Used to downplay a favor or to express that helping each other is natural. Often said when someone thanks you, implying 'you'd do the same for me'. Very common in daily conversation.
"Thanks for helping me." "We help each other, that's what friends do."
When we're in trouble, we help each other out.
A proverb meaning 'if a fish is willing, the water will be kind'. It expresses that kindness or cooperation is reciprocated. Somewhat literary or old-fashioned, but still understood.
If he's willing to cooperate, then we'll cooperate too — you scratch my back and I'll scratch yours.
You can directly express the idea with a conditional sentence like 'if you do X, I'll do Y'. This is straightforward and clear, but less idiomatic than set phrases.
If you help me, I'll help you too.
If you cooperate with me, I'll cooperate with you.
Loanword from English 'give and take'. Used in business or casual contexts, but can sound slightly foreign or trendy. Not as deeply rooted as 持ちつ持たれつ.
Human relationships are fundamentally about give and take.