compliance, obedience, female
堃 centers on yielding or conforming: compliance, obedience, and a traditional association with the feminine principle of receptiveness. The meanings connect through the idea of following rather than leading.
堃 is a rare character. It appears to combine 土 (earth) with doubled 方 (direction/method), but the exact historical development is uncertain. It may be a variant or constructed form related to the idea of earth yielding or conforming.
Two 方 (directions) rest on 土 (earth). Imagine the earth accepting any direction imposed on it—always compliant and obedient, like a receptive feminine force.
For コン, picture a con artist convincing the earth to obey every command: con -> コン, and the earth complies without question.