内うち面づら

noun

face shown at home; private demeanor

Refers to the relaxed, unguarded expression or attitude a person shows only to family or close companions, in contrast to their public face (外面).

• 彼かれは外そとでは厳きびしいが、家いえでは内うち面づらがとても優やさしい。

  He is strict outside, but at home his private demeanor is very gentle.

• 内うち面づらと外そと面づらのギャップが大おおきい人ひともいる。

  Some people have a big gap between their public face and their face at home.