外剛内柔
Meanings
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tough outside, soft inside; faint-hearted person acting brave
Describes a person who appears strong or brave outwardly but is actually gentle or timid. Often used to characterize someone who puts on a brave front.
He is tough on the outside but soft at heart; he acts tough but is actually kind.
The more a person is faint-hearted pretending to be brave, the more they try to hide their inner weakness.