Refers to a situation, relationship, or problem that has become twisted, complicated, or difficult to resolve. Often used for interpersonal conflicts or procedural snarls.
The discussion got tangled up, and the meeting dragged on.
Their relationship has become so complicated that it can no longer be repaired.
It is usually written in kana. The kanji form 拗れ exists but is rare.
Kanji form is uncommon; learners should prefer the kana spelling.
Derived from the verb 拗れる (こじれる), which means 'to become twisted or complicated'. The noun form こじれ nominalizes that state. The kanji 拗 is rare and not commonly used for this word.