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JLPT N5–N4System guide
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これこのこここうこちらこんなこういう

Choosing Japanese reference words

Make two choices. First choose the relationship: for the speaker’s side, for the listener’s side or something just mentioned, for something distant or shared in memory, and when asking. Then choose what you need to refer to: a thing, a noun, a place, a direction, a manner, or a kind.

The complete grid

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What you needSpeaker sideListener side or just mentionedDistant or sharedQuestion
A thing or matter standing aloneこれそれあれどれ
A specific nounこのそのあのどの
A placeここそこあそこどこ
A direction, side, or careful referenceこちらそちらあちらどちら
A manner or conditionこうそうああどう
A kind or quality before a nounこんなそんなあんなどんな
An explained or classified kind before a nounこういうそういうああいうどういう

Learn this as a grid rather than as dozens of unrelated words. The beginning chooses the relationship; the rest chooses the job.

Distance is only the starting point

In a face-to-face scene, the speaker’s area and the listener’s area often matter more than exact meters. The same location can therefore be そこ to one person and ここ to the person standing there. When both people share one viewpoint, the three rows can instead suggest near, middle, and far areas. Conversation creates a similar map: often picks up information the other person has just introduced, while can recall something both people already remember.

New information and shared memory

The middle and distant rows can organize knowledge, not just visible space.

あたらしいきってんつけたんですか。そのみせえきちかくですか。

You found a new coffee shop? Is that shop near the station?

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The shop has just been introduced, so the listener picks it up with the middle row.

がっこうまえちいさなパンがあったね。あのみせのパンはおいしかった。

There used to be a little bakery in front of the school, remember? The bread from that shop was delicious.

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The distant row evokes a shop that both speakers remember.

A thing by itself or a named noun

You are choosing among several umbrellas.

このかさわたしのです。

This umbrella is mine.

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どれがあなたのですか。

Which one is yours?

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どのかさがあなたのですか。

Which umbrella is yours?

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Takeaway: これ・それ・あれ・どれ stand alone. この・その・あの・どの must be followed directly by the noun.

Ordinary place or careful direction

A staff member is showing a visitor where to go.

うけつけここです。

The reception desk is here.

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うけつけこちらです。

The reception desk is this way.

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This is a careful, service-friendly way to indicate the place or direction.

こちらあんないたんとうもりさんです。

This is Ms. Mori, who will be your guide.

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Takeaway: ここ simply identifies a place. こちら points to a direction or side and can carefully indicate a place, person, organization, or choice. It is polite in tone, but it is not an honorific form by itself.

Doing it this way or describing this kind

An instructor demonstrates an easy method.

ボタンをこうしてください。

Please press the button this way.

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こんなほうほうならかんたんです。

A method like this would be easy.

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こういうほうほうしょしんしゃにもかりやすいです。

This kind of method is easy for beginners to understand.

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Takeaway: こう describes how an action is done or what a condition is like. こんな and こういう go directly before a noun and describe its kind.

Which one, where, how, or what kind?

どれ and どの ask you to identify a particular member of a known set. どこ asks for a place, and どう asks about a method, condition, or opinion. どんな and どういう ask for a description, type, or explanation rather than a choice from a list.

どのくつがいいですか。

Which pair of shoes would you like?

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どんなくつがいいですか。

What kind of shoes would you like?

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Register and everyday use

Most of this system is neutral and common in both conversation and writing. The direction series is especially useful in reception, shops, introductions, and business calls because it sounds careful. Match the rest of the sentence to that setting as well: choosing こちら cannot make an otherwise abrupt sentence polite.

More examples across the family

かいちゅうですか。それざんねんです。

The meeting has been canceled? That is unfortunate.

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むかしみんなでったあのしゃしんおぼえていますか。

Do you remember that photograph we all took long ago?

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つぎきゅうけいしょどこですか。

Where is the next rest stop?

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このはこどうけますか。

How do you open this box?

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きゃくさまのおせきそちらです。

Your seat is over there.

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どんな部屋へやさがしていますか。

What kind of room are you looking for?

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そういうけんたいせつだとおもいます。

I think that kind of opinion is important too.

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