a wise man listens to counsel; a worry shared is a worry halved
Proverb meaning that talking things over with someone is beneficial; it can lead to good advice or lighten one's burden.
Instead of worrying alone, why not talk to someone? As they say, a worry shared is a worry halved.
I've got something to ask you
Used as a conversational opener when you want to seek advice or discuss something with the listener. Often softened with ちょっと or ね.
I've got something I'd like to ask you—do you have a moment?
Standard kanji spelling for this proverb and phrase.
Kana-mixed spelling; often used when the kanji 物 is considered unnecessary or for softer tone.
A set phrase combining 物 (thing, matter) with the topic particle は and 相談 (consultation). The exact origin is uncertain, but it likely developed as a proverbial expression emphasizing the value of discussing matters with others.