おべっか使つかいMeanings1nounflatterer; toady; sycophantA person who uses excessive flattery to gain favor; often carries a negative, servile connotation. Related to おべっか (flattery).See also: おべっか彼かれは上じょう司しのおべっか使つかいで、みんなに嫌きらわれている。He is a flatterer of the boss and is disliked by everyone.