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Meanings
1
fingering an object to kill time; amusing oneself; diversion
Refers to handling or playing with something small to pass the time, or a light pastime. Often implies idle hands.
Bored, I was fiddling with a pen on the desk as a way to kill time.
Knitting is her diversion.
2
A less common, somewhat old-fashioned or literary term for gambling, often with a nuance of casual or idle betting.
In the old days, people used to play hanafuda as a light gambling pastime.