手て盛もり

noun

helping oneself; arranging to suit oneself

Often used for serving oneself food or taking liberties in arranging things without asking. Can imply self-serving behavior.

• 飲のみ会かいでは手て盛もりで料りょう理りを取とり分わけてください。

  At the drinking party, please help yourself to the food.

• 彼かれの計けい画かくは手て盛もりで、他ほかの人ひとの意い見けんを聞きかなかった。

  His plan was self-serving; he didn't listen to others' opinions.