気きの持もちよう

expression

one's frame of mind; how one looks at things

A set phrase meaning that one's attitude or mindset determines how a situation is perceived or experienced.

• 同おなじ出で来き事ごとでも、気きの持もちようで幸しあわせにも不ふ幸しあわせにもなる。

  Even the same event can make you happy or unhappy depending on your frame of mind.

• 失しっ敗ぱいをどう捉とらえるかは気きの持もちようだ。

  How you take failure is a matter of your mindset.