excessive kindness; solicitude; meddlesome concern
Often used self-deprecatingly or critically for well-meaning but overbearing advice or concern, like that of an old woman. Common in the set phrase 老婆心ながら (at the risk of being meddlesome).
At the risk of being meddlesome, let me say one thing.
I appreciate his solicitude, but sometimes it feels a bit meddlesome.