JLPT N1 › Freq. Frequency Top 50,000 Conjugation 見合う · godan verb (-u)
Form Positive Negative Dictionary 見み 合あ う 見み 合あ わない Polite 見み 合あ います 見み 合あ いません Past polite 見み 合あ いました 見み 合あ いませんでした Past 見み 合あ った 見み 合あ わなかった Te-form 見み 合あ って 見み 合あ わないで Desire 見み 合あ いたい 見み 合あ いたくない Potential 見み 合あ える 見み 合あ えない Passive 見み 合あ われる 見み 合あ われない Causative 見み 合あ わせる 見み 合あ わせない Causative passive 見み 合あ わせられる also 見み 合あ わされる 見み 合あ わせられない also 見み 合あ わされない Volitional 見み 合あ おう Polite volitional 見み 合あ いましょう Imperative 見み 合あ え 見み 合あ うな Conditional 見み 合あ えば 見み 合あ わなければ Tara conditional 見み 合あ ったら 見み 合あ わなかったら
Pairs with 見合わせる › Usage patterns 〈 事こと 〉 に 見み 合あ う to be commensurate with, correspond to (something)
His salary doesn't correspond to the amount of work he does.
〈 事こと 〉 に 見み 合あ った 〈 物もの 〉 a thing commensurate with, matching (something)
You should live a lifestyle commensurate with your income.
〈 人ひと 〉 と 見み 合あ う to exchange looks with someone
The two of them, startled, instinctively looked at each other.
Transitive / intransitive 見合う is used both transitively and intransitively depending on the sense: transitively in 二人は思わず顔を見合った ("the two instinctively looked at each other's faces"), and intransitively in 給料に見合う仕事をする ("to do work commensurate with the salary").
Related words· 7 釣り合う stresses balance or harmony between two things, while 見合う focuses on one thing being proportionate to another in value or degree.
相応する is a more formal, almost bureaucratic way to say something matches or is appropriate, whereas 見合う is the everyday verb for the same idea.
相応しい is an adjective describing something as fitting or appropriate for a person or situation, while 見合う is a verb describing a matching relationship between two things.
見交わす specifically means to exchange glances with someone, a narrower and more literary word than the reciprocal 'look at each other' sense of 見合う .
Show 3 more Show fewer 見合う is a broader, more neutral word for two people looking at each other (or things corresponding in value), while 見つめ合う specifically emphasizes an intense, sustained gaze.
見合う specifically describes being commensurate with or balancing against something (like cost and reward), while 合う in this sense is the more general verb for something being worth it.
見合う means to be in balance or proportion with something, close to 準ずる 's sense of being proportionate, but 見合う is less formal and not used for rule-following.
Don't confuse with 見合う looks visually similar to 見舞う but means to correspond or match (e.g., prices matching value), not to visit or strike someone.
見合う means 'to be commensurate with' or 'to correspond to' (e.g. price matching quality), which learners may confuse with 似合う 's meaning of 'to look good on someone' due to the shared 合う .
Word family formal marriage meeting; arranged marriage interview · correspondence; balance; matching · miai (go term); mutual follow-up options
arranged marriage
formal marriage interview; arranged meeting with a prospective spouse
Written forms 見み 合あ う Usage 97%
Standard kanji spelling. The reading みあう is unambiguous.
みあう Usage 3%
Etymology Compound of 見る (miru, 'to see') and 合う (au, 'to meet, match'). The core meaning of mutual looking extends metaphorically to things matching or corresponding.
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