同士among themselves; with each other
After a word for what people are, 同士 means those people with one another, and nobody else: friends with each other, children among themselves, just us women.
The two of them are friends.
When children quarrel among themselves, adults don't need to step in straight away.
How to form it
Noun + 同士
Straight on, with no の before it. The result is a noun: 友達同士だ, 友達同士で行く, 友達同士の約束.
- Before it
- What they are to each other, or what they all are: 友達, 恋人, 隣, 子ども, 女, 男, 初対面 (meeting for the first time).
- How many
- Two people or a whole group. Things too: 車同士がぶつかった, two cars hit each other.
- Where you'll meet it
- Everyday talk and writing.
In use
Employees of about the same age talked the new project over among themselves.
They were meeting for the first time, so the conversation was a little awkward at first.
It would be nice to go on a trip sometime, just us women.
Two things to know
What it adds to 友達と
I went on a trip with a friend.
と names who came with you.
We went on a trip, just us friends.
同士 says what the group was: friends and nobody else. No parents, no teachers.
It takes in both sides
English "fellow" can describe one person: a fellow student. 同士 can't. It always names everyone in the relationship together.
Not said: 田中さんは
(Tanaka is a friend of mine.)
田中さんは私の友達です, or 田中さんと私は友達同士です.
Close neighbours
たちN5
Just a group: the students, Tanaka and the others. 同士 is not a plural. The word before it is what links the people, and the sentence is about them with one another.
Tanaka and the others went home ahead of us.
合うN3
Goes on the verb: they do it to each other. The two often come together.
The international students got together and talked over the problems of daily life.
Check yourself
1Who went to Kyoto?
夏休みに、
Choose an answer to see why.
2"Tanaka is a colleague of mine."
Choose an answer to see why.
3Which one fits?
これは
Choose an answer to see why.
More detail
隣同士 is "next to each other". 似た者同士 is "two of a kind".
Their seats were next to each other, and they soon became friends.
Those two are two of a kind.
More sentences
We hold an event once a month so that students have more contact with one another.
Sharing the same hobby, they hit it off at once.
The rivals praised each other's efforts.
Tanaka and Mori are colleagues.