させてほしいWant someone to allow an action
させてほしい says that the speaker wants someone to allow the speaker or another person to do something. It often works as a request for permission, but it is phrased as a statement of desire.
Who allows whom to act?
There are normally two roles to understand: the person being asked to allow the action, and the person who will perform it. In a request to the listener, the permission-giver is often left unstated. The person who will act may be marked explicitly, especially when it is not obvious from context.
Asking permission for yourself
今日は私に最初から説明させてほしい。
Today, I want you to let me explain from the beginning.
Analyze私 is the person who will explain. The listener, who is being asked to allow it, is understood from context.
Wanting permission for someone else
先生には、由美に自分の考えを最後まで話させてほしい。
I want the teacher to let Yumi explain her own thoughts to the end.
Analyze先生 is the person expected to give permission, while 由美 is the person who will speak.
Desire that functions as a request
Although the grammar literally presents a desired situation, saying it directly to the person in control normally communicates a request. Because it states what the speaker wants, it can sound insistent when used without context or softening. Expressions such as できれば and a polite ending can soften it.
Desire statement or direct permission request?
させてほしい presents being allowed to act as something the speaker wants. By contrast, させてください directly asks the listener to grant permission. Both can be direct, but their grammatical framing is different.
ここは私に説明させてください。
Please let me explain this part.
AnalyzeThis is the neighboring direct-request pattern, not the target desire construction.
More examples
できれば、次の会議では私に司会をさせてほしいです。
If possible, I'd like you to let me chair the next meeting.
Analyze今日は少し休ませてほしい。
I want you to let me rest a little today.
Analyze今度の試合では、弟にも最後までプレーさせてほしい。
In the next match, I want you to let my younger brother play to the end too.
Analyze社長には、本人にこの件を直接説明させてほしい。
I want the company president to let the person concerned explain this matter directly.
Analyze最後の質問には、自分の言葉で答えさせてほしい。
For the final question, I want you to let me answer in my own words.
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