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させてもらいたいさせていただきたいWould like permission to do

Use this pattern when you want permission to perform an action yourself. The version with the humble verb is more deferential and is common in meetings, applications, and formal statements.

How the pattern works

The causative form presents the action as something another person allows the speaker to do. もらいたい or いただきたい then expresses the speaker’s desire to receive that permission. The speaker is therefore the person who will perform the action.

A neutral request for permission

Supervisor

明日あしたかいではだれせつめいしますか。

Who will give the explanation at tomorrow’s meeting?

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Team member

できれば、わたしせつめいさせてもらいたいです。

If possible, I’d like permission to give the explanation.

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The supervisor is clearly in a position to decide who speaks. わたし makes the intended doer explicit.

A deferential formal statement

ほんじつは、調ちょうけっについてほうこくさせていただきたいおもいます。

Today, I would like to report on the results of the investigation.

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In a meeting or presentation, this is a deferential way to introduce the speaker’s planned report. おもいます softens the statement further.

Desire that functions as a request

Grammatically, this pattern says what permission the speaker wants. In an appropriate situation, saying that desire to the person who can grant permission functions as a request. The deferential version is especially common in applications, business communication, meetings, and prepared remarks.

Desire for permission versus a direct request

させてもらいたい and させていただきたい present permission as something the speaker desires to receive. By contrast, させてください directly asks the listener to allow the action.

ちょう、このあんわたしせつめいさせてください

Manager, please let me explain this proposal.

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This is the neighboring direct-request pattern, not the target pattern on this page.

More examples

このけんについては、まずわたしからはなさせてもらいたい

On this matter, I’d like permission to speak first.

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たい調ちょうがよくないので、今日きょうそう退たいさせてもらいたいのですが。

I’m not feeling well, so I’d like permission to leave early today.

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らいげつけんきゅうしつけんがくさせていただきたいのですが。

I would like to visit and observe the laboratory next month, if that would be possible.

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のうであれば、かいかいにもさんさせていただきたいかんがえております。

If possible, I would like to participate in the next meeting as well.

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ていきょういただいたしゃしんこうほうけいさいさせていただきたいのですが。

I would like permission to publish the photograph you provided in the newsletter.

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さいに、こんていあんないさせていただきたいおもいます。

Lastly, I would like to outline the schedule from here.

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