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姉さん (ねえさん, neesan) Japanese meaning: older sister | Kotomora
じ 字 Furigana
Meanings Jump to a sense… 1. older sister; elder sister 2. young lady; miss 3. miss; waitress; bar woman 4. ma'am; senior woman Report an issue with this page
姉ねえ
さん
に
宿しゅく
題だい
を
手伝てつだ
っ
て
もらっ
た
。
I had my older sister help me with my homework.
Sis, are you free tomorrow?
Kanji 姐 elder sister, maidservant Related words 姉さん is a warmer, more address-like way to refer to or call one's older sister, while 姉 is the plain, neutral word used mainly when talking about her to others.
姐御 is a rougher, tougher-sounding word for a senior boss-like woman (often underworld slang), while 姐さん/姉さん is the milder term used in the geisha world for a senior woman.
姉さん is a slightly less formal address term than お姉さん, dropping the polite お prefix while keeping the same meaning.
Politeness お姉さん adds the polite お- prefix, making it the safer, more polite choice for addressing someone else's older sister or an unknown young woman, whereas plain 姉さん can sound more familiar or casual.
姉さん is a more polite, respectful way to refer to or address an older sister or young woman, while 姉ちゃん is casual and affectionate.
Word family older sister; elder sister · young lady; miss · waitress; miss · ma'am; senior geisha · older girl
eldest older sister (honorific)
youngest older sister
sister-in-law (older) · older stepsister; older adopted sister; non-blood-related older sister
Written forms 姉さん
ねえさん
Main high-priority spelling and reading; usual for an older sister and also used in some forms of address.
あねさん
Attested alternate reading. It is much less common than ねえさん and can sound traditional or be encountered in set expressions.
姐さん
ねえさん
Alternative spelling with a more traditional, trade-world, or tough nuance; especially usual for addressing waitresses, geisha seniors, and similar roles.
あねさん
Less common attested reading of 姐さん; useful for recognizing traditional or stylized uses.
あねさん
Etymology 姉 means 'older sister' and さん is the honorific suffix. 姐 is an alternative character associated with an older or senior woman in certain traditional or occupational contexts; the word's historical development is not specified.