Related words ねえ is a softer, gender-neutral way to get someone's attention, while おい sounds rougher and is typically used by men.
ねえ is softer and often used by women or to gently get attention, whereas ヘイ is more casual and masculine.
ねえ calls for the listener's attention like あのね , but あのね more strongly signals that the speaker is about to explain or confide something.
Word family· 9 older sister; elder sister · young lady; miss · miss; waitress; bar woman · ma'am; senior woman
older sister; elder sister · girl; young woman
young lady; miss
elder sister · effeminate man; camp gay man
older sister; elder sister · young lady; miss · waitress; miss · ma'am; senior geisha · older girl
Show 4 more Show fewer Written forms 姉ねえ Usage 3%
Standard kanji spelling for the suffix meaning 'older sister' in familiar language.
ねえ Usage 82%
Kana spelling is common in casual writing, especially when the suffix is used without a name.
ネエ Usage 15%
Etymology Derived from the older sister term あね , with sound change to ねえ in familiar usage. The kanji 姉 is used for its meaning 'older sister'.
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