こだわる (kodawaru) Japanese meaning: be obsessive | Kotomora

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こだわる · godan verb (-ru)

Form	Positive	Negative
Dictionary	こだわる	こだわらない
Polite	こだわります	こだわりません
Past polite	こだわりました	こだわりませんでした
Past	こだわった	こだわらなかった
Te-form	こだわって	こだわらないで
Desire	こだわりたい	こだわりたくない
Potential	こだわれる	こだわれない
Passive	こだわられる	こだわられない
Causative	こだわらせる	こだわらせない
Causative passive	こだわらせられるalso こだわらされる	こだわらせられないalso こだわらされない
Volitional	こだわろう
Polite volitional	こだわりましょう
Imperative	こだわれ	こだわるな
Conditional	こだわれば	こだわらなければ
Tara conditional	こだわったら	こだわらなかったら

Meanings

godan verb (-ru), intransitive verb

be obsessive; fuss over; be hung up on

usually written using kana alone

Often negative: worrying too much or being overly fixated on details, rules, or trivial matters. Commonly used with ～にこだわる.

彼かれは細こまかいことにこだわりすぎる。

Kanji

拘arrest, seize, concerned

Related words· 7

気きにするN3sense 1
気にする is a general 'to mind/worry about' something, while 拘る implies a stronger, more stubborn fixation on a particular point.
重じゅう視しN3sense 2
重視する means to place importance on something in a neutral, businesslike way, while 拘る (positive sense) suggests personal pickiness or devotion to quality.
執しゅう着ちゃくN1sense 1
執着する is a more formal, often psychological term for being unable to let go of something, whereas 拘る is the everyday word for fussing over details.
固こ執しつN1sense 1
固執する stresses stubbornly clinging to one's own opinion or method, while 拘る can also describe fixating on trivial external details.

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捕とらわれるN1
こだわる describes being fixated or particular about something, while 捕らわれる (metaphorical sense) implies being trapped or dominated by an idea or emotion, often negatively.
凝こるN2
拘る focuses on being picky or sticking to a particular standard, often with a nuance of stubbornness, while 凝る emphasizes elaborate craftsmanship or careful attention to detail.
関かかわるN2
こだわる is the common reading and usage for 'being particular about something,' while 関わる with the same kanji 拘る in this sense is less frequent and more formal.

Opposites

妥だ協きょうN1sense 2
妥協する means to compromise or settle, the opposite of 拘る's sense of insisting on one's own standard.

Don't confuse with

関かかわるN2
関わる (かかわる, 'to be involved/related to') looks similar in kanji to 拘る (こだわる, 'to be hung up on') but has a completely different reading and meaning.

Word family

こだわりN2
obsession; fixation; fastidiousness; pickiness · complaining; criticizing · speciality; signature item

Written forms

こだわるUsage99%
Usually written in kana. The kanji forms 拘る and 拘わる exist but are less common.
拘こだわるUsage1%
Kanji form; less common than kana. May be encountered in formal or literary writing.
拘こだわる
Rare kanji variant with okurigana わる.

Etymology

Originally meant 'to get stuck' physically. The modern psychological sense of 'being fixated' developed from that idea of being unable to move past something. The exact derivation is uncertain.

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