弔い上げ
also: といあげ
Meanings
1
last death anniversary memorial service
Buddhist term for the final memorial service held for a deceased person, typically the 32nd or 49th anniversary of their death, after which no further regular memorials are held.
See also: 三十三回忌
We held the final memorial service for my grandmother on the 32nd anniversary of her death.
It is believed that once the last memorial service is completed, the deceased joins the ancestors.