手て心ごころを加くわえる

expression, ichidan verb

take into consideration; use discretion; make allowances

Used when someone adjusts their judgment or treatment of a person or situation, often with leniency or flexibility rather than strict rules.

• 初はじめての失しっ敗ぱいだから、手て心ごころを加くわえてあげてください。

  Since it's his first mistake, please go easy on him.

• 審しん査さでは手て心ごころを加くわえず、厳げん正せいに判はん断だんします。

  We will judge strictly without making any allowances.