探り箸
Meanings
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probing with chopsticks; rummaging in shared dishes with chopsticks
A breach of Japanese table manners: using chopsticks to stir or search through shared dishes to pick out preferred morsels.
Probing with chopsticks is a breach of etiquette that makes fellow diners uncomfortable.
When I was a child, my grandmother often scolded me, saying, 'Don't rummage with your chopsticks.'