しとやか

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Common wordJLPTN1Freq.FrequencyTop 50,000

Meanings

usually written using kana alone

Describes a woman's demeanor as elegant, gentle, and well-mannered. Often used for traditional feminine grace.

〈人ひと〉な女じょ性せいa graceful, ladylike woman
彼かの女じょはいつも淑しとやかな女じょ性せいだと言いわれる。
She is always described as a graceful, ladylike woman.
〈人ひと〉に振ふる舞まうto behave in a graceful, ladylike manner
彼かの女じょは淑しとやかに振ふる舞まうよう教おしえられた。
She was taught to behave in a graceful, ladylike manner.
〈人ひと〉な物もの腰ごしa gentle, modest bearing
淑しとやかな物もの腰ごしが彼かの女じょの魅み力りょくの一ひとつだ。
Her gentle, modest bearing is one of her charms.

上じょう品ひんN3
上品 describes refined elegance in people or things generally, while 淑やか specifically describes a woman's gentle, modest demeanor.
優ゆう雅がN1
優雅 suggests a more sophisticated, sometimes luxurious grace, whereas 淑やか emphasizes quiet, modest femininity.
女おんならしいN1
淑やか specifically describes graceful, quiet, refined demeanor, whereas 女らしい covers a broader range of traits seen as fitting womanly ideals.

がさつ
がさつ describes rough, coarse manners, the opposite of the refined gentleness expressed by 淑やか.

The origin is uncertain; it may be related to the classical adjective しとし (quiet, gentle). The kanji 淑 is used for its meaning of 'graceful, modest'.