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JLPT N5–N1Register guide
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め・なさい・てごらん・てはいけない・するな・てはならない・べからず・あるまじき

Commands and prohibitions by strength and setting

Choose a directive by asking three things: are you telling someone to act or not to act, do you have a clear reason to control that person’s action, and is the setting conversational, instructional, formal, or deliberately literary? These forms are not simply rungs on one politeness ladder. A polite ending can still impose a firm rule, while an old-fashioned form may sound measured without being respectful.

Authority comes before wording

Directives sound natural when the relationship or situation gives the speaker a reason to control the action: a caregiver guiding a child, a teacher instructing students, a coach calling during a match, an official rule, or an urgent warning. Without that reason, even a grammatically correct command can sound patronizing, angry, or theatrical. For ordinary courteous requests, use a request expression instead of choosing a supposedly “polite command.”

When you want the listener to act

The four positive choices differ mainly in force, relationship, and persona.

Softened authoritative instruction

Verb stem plus なさい

A parent, caregiver, teacher, or written test gives a clear higher-to-lower instruction.

Softer than a bare imperative does not mean suitable for a superior, customer, or equal.

Guided encouragement to try

Verb in the -form plus ごらん

A familiar senior, teacher, or caregiver prompts someone to try an action and discover the result.

A sharp tone can turn warm guidance into a dare.

Old-fashioned superior command

Verb stem plus たまえ

Fiction, drama, parody, or another stylized setting deliberately gives the speaker an old-fashioned superior persona.

It is mainly a recognition form and is not a modern polite request.

The same action under four relationships

Someone tells another person to read part of a document; the relationship and genre change the natural form.

いそげ!

Hurry! Read the map!

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This fits an emergency team leader demanding immediate action.

まずせつめいみなさい

First, read the instructions.

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This suits a teacher directing a student.

したちゅうしゃくんでごらん

Try reading the note below too.

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The teacher guides the learner toward a useful clue.

きみ、このじょぶんみたまえ

You there, read this preface.

Analyze

This sounds like a senior professor or official in deliberately old-fashioned fiction.

Takeaway: The forms do more than change bluntness. They cast the speaker as an urgent commander, an everyday authority figure, a familiar guide, or an old-fashioned superior.

When you want the action not to happen

First decide whether you are stating a rule, issuing a direct negative command, or writing in a deliberately elevated style.

Ordinary rule or warning

Verb in the -form plus はいけない

Stating an everyday rule, safety warning, or situation-specific ban in speech or general writing.

A polite final ending remains firm because the sentence still declares the action impermissible.

Blunt negative command

Dictionary-form verb plus

Danger, strict authority, strong emotion, coaching, or dramatic dialogue justifies a short direct order.

Use the dictionary form, not the negative form.

Casual spoken rule

ちゃいけない・じゃいけない

Expressing the ordinary prohibition naturally in familiar conversation.

Keep the ending that expresses the prohibition; the contraction by itself can belong to a different pattern.

Formal modern rule

てはならない

A regulation, institution, public principle, or serious formal statement presents the ban as authoritative and impersonal.

It is usually too formal for a simple personal request.

Severe literary injunction

べからず at the end, or べからざる before a noun

A maxim, warning, slogan, quotation, or archaizing statement needs severe literary force.

This is not the normal modern form for everyday notices.

Literary condemnation before a noun

Verb plus まじき before an evaluative noun

Formal rhetoric condemns an act, mistake, event, or statement as something never to be allowed or repeated.

Treat it mainly as a recognition form used in established combinations, not as a freely productive modern ending.

Condemnation against a role standard

Role or institution noun plus にあるまじき plus a noun

Conduct is condemned as fundamentally unworthy of a named profession, office, status, or institution.

Its rhetorical force is disproportionate for minor everyday mistakes.

One forbidden action in four settings

Entering a restricted room is forbidden, but the speaker, audience, and medium change the natural expression.

この部屋へやはいってはいけません

You must not enter this room.

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This is an ordinary polite rule addressed to visitors.

けんだ!なかはいるな

It is dangerous! Do not go inside!

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Immediate danger makes the blunt command appropriate.

そこはものおきだから、はいっちゃいけないよ。

That is a storage room, so you must not go in.

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This fits a familiar spoken warning to a child or family member.

きょなくかんしつはいってはならない

No one may enter the storage room without permission.

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This reads as an institutional regulation rather than a personal warning.

Takeaway: The ordinary and contracted forms state a practical ban, the short negative command directly controls the listener, and the formal form presents the restriction as an authoritative standard.

A ban is not always a shouted command

てはいけない says that an action is not permitted. Dictionary-form verb plus directly orders the listener not to act. The first therefore works across ordinary rules and warnings; the second needs urgency, authority, strong emotion, or deliberate dramatic force.

Recognizing the literary end of the scale

A writer uses elevated language to forbid or condemn serious conduct.

せいいきもんけるべからず

The gate to the sanctuary must not be opened.

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The sentence-final form creates a severe, inscription-like injunction.

しょうかくすとは、けっしてゆるすまじきこうである。

Concealing evidence is an utterly unforgivable act.

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The form modifies an evaluative noun and strongly condemns the act.

みんあざむくとは、ちょうにあるまじきこうだ。

Deceiving the public is conduct unbecoming a mayor.

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The mayoral role supplies the standard that the conduct violates.

Takeaway: べからず directly delivers a literary ban. まじき and あるまじき more often condemn what a following noun describes. These forms are chiefly for recognition unless a deliberately rhetorical style is intended.

More examples across the family

あぶない、あしもと

Watch out—look where you are stepping!

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いますぐ部屋へやかたづけなさい

Tidy your room right now.

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This suits a parent giving a firm instruction to a child.

このかぎをゆっくりまわしてごらん

Try turning this key slowly.

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さあ、きみゆうはなしたまえ

Now then, state your reasons.

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This is appropriate as stylized speech from a senior figure in fiction.

ここにてんしゃめてはいけません

Bicycles must not be parked here.

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そのはこけるななかけんぶつがある。

Do not open that box! There is hazardous material inside.

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そんなにいそいじゃいけないよ。

You must not rush so much.

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かいいんじょうほうがいおくってはならない

Members’ information must not be sent outside the organization.

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まえかねらすべからず

The bell must not be rung before dawn.

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よわたちひとようするとは、ゆるすまじきこうだ。

Exploiting vulnerable people is an unforgivable act.

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せいじょくするとは、きょうにあるまじきたいだ。

Insulting a student is conduct unbecoming a teacher.

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