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JLPT N1Written, formalOne idea, three uses

に堪たえない・に堪たえるtoo awful to watch; good enough for; deeply (grateful)

堪たえる is to bear something, or to hold up under it. The word before に tells you what is being borne: a sight, a test or a feeling.

How to form it

見る/聞く/読む or a noun + に堪えない/に堪える

Read たえない, たえる. These three are the only verbs. Any other action goes in as a noun: 実じつ用ように堪たえない, not 使つかうに堪たえない.

Which one is it?

Before にに堪たえないに堪たえる
見みる, 聞きく, 読よむToo awful to watch, hear or readWorth watching or reading
A test: 鑑かん賞しょう (viewing), 評ひょう価か (appraisal), 批ひ評ひょう (criticism), 実じつ用よう (real use)Not good enough to pass itGood enough to pass it
A feeling: 感かん謝しゃ, 喜よろこび, 遺い憾かん (regret)You feel it deeplyNot used this way

Too awful to watch, hear or read

The thing is too cruel, too ugly or too badly made to sit through. It is a strong judgment, met in news, reviews and novels. In conversation people say 見みていられない or 聞きいていられない.

Good enough to pass the test

A reviewer's measured praise: the work was looked at hard and it held up. In conversation people say 見みる価か値ちがある or 十じゅう分ぶん楽たのしめる.

A feeling too strong to hold in

Here the negative doesn't cancel the feeling. You can't keep it in, so you feel it deeply. It is your own feeling, the ending is usually 堪たえません, and の念ねん ("the feeling of") is often added. Only a few nouns go here, chiefly 感かん謝しゃ, 喜よろこび, 感かん激げき, 遺い憾かん, 哀あい惜せき and 同どう情じょう.

This belongs to speeches, ceremonies and formal letters. To a friend, say 本ほん当とうにありがとう.

堪えない or 耐えない?

Both are read たえない, and you will often see 見みるに耐たえない. Careful writing keeps 耐たえる for putting up with hardship, as in 痛いたみに耐たえる, and writes these three with 堪.

Close neighbours

に値するN2

The thing deserves what the noun names: 称しょう賛さん (praise), 注ちゅう目もく (attention). に堪たえる says less: it holds up.

に足るN1

There is enough to justify trusting or believing something.

を禁じ得ないN1

Also a feeling you can't hold back, but one that rises as you watch or read: 怒いかり, 涙なみだ, 驚おどろき. Written, and not ceremonial.

に忍しのびないN1

Pity or attachment stops you: 見みるに忍しのびない is too pitiful to watch, where 見みるに堪たえない is too awful. Also of what you can't bring yourself to do: 捨すてるに忍しのびない.

Check yourself

1What does this mean?

温あたたかいお言こと葉ばをいただき、感かん謝しゃに堪たえません。

Choose an answer to see why.

2Which one fits?

素人しろうとの作さく品ひんだが、プロの批ひ評ひょうにも十じゅう分ぶん(  )。

Choose an answer to see why.

3What does this say about the film?

あの映えい画がは見みるに堪たえない。

Choose an answer to see why.

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