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てちょうだいFamiliar request: please do it for me

てちょうだい makes a familiar, direct request for the listener to do something. It often feels like “do this for me, please” and is used with family, partners, children, and other close people.

What the request implies

The listener is expected to perform the action, while the speaker presents it as something wanted for the speaker’s sake. This personal “for me” feeling is often stronger than in a bare te-form request.

Between close partners

A

ものってくるね。

I’m going shopping.

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B

じゃあ、ぎゅうにゅうってきてちょうだい

Then please pick up some milk for me too.

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This sounds natural when the speakers have an established, familiar relationship.

A routine caregiver-like instruction

かえったら、あらってちょうだい

When you get home, please wash your hands.

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Said by a caregiver to a child, this can sound firm but caring rather than impolite.

Compared with a bare te-form request

A bare te-form can also make a casual request, but it does not explicitly add the same “do it for me” framing. Adding ちょうだい can make the request feel more personally directed and, depending on tone, more insistent.

ちょっとって

Wait a moment.

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This is the neighboring bare te-form request, not the target pattern.

More examples

このがみ、あとでんでちょうだい

Please read this letter later for me.

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おもちゃをはこもどしてちょうだい

Please put the toys back in the box.

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今日きょうさきてちょうだい

Please go to bed before me tonight.

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おばあちゃんにこのしゃしんせてちょうだい

Please show Grandma this photo.

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ちょっとこっちを手伝てつだってちょうだい

Please give me a hand over here.

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