かわりにinstead of; in return for
One thing stands in for another: soy milk for milk, you for your mother, an email for a phone call. It also marks a trade-off, where you get one thing and pay for it with another.
in return for
I make dinner, and in return my little brother washes the dishes.
Instead of
Noun + の + かわりに / verb dictionary form + かわりに
In return for
Plain form + かわりに
A な-adjective keeps な: 便利なかわりに. Often written 代わりに.
- Before it
- For "instead of", the one that isn't used or doesn't happen. For "in return for", one half of a deal.
- On its own
- With nothing before it, かわりに is "instead". そのかわり opens a sentence: "in return", "to make up for it".
- Where you'll meet it
- Everywhere. It is the everyday word.
In use
I will attend the meeting in place of the department manager.
Instead of calling, I sent an email.
My mother is busy, so I'll go instead.
The trade-off
Here nothing is replaced. Both halves are true, and one makes up for the other: a high price for something that lasts, a favor for a favor.
These shoes are expensive, but in return they last a long time.
I'll help you with your homework, so buy me lunch in return.
You can go home early today. In return, come in early tomorrow.
Close neighbours
に代わってN3
Formal, and only after a noun: someone or something takes over a role. It has no trade-off meaning.
The vice president gave the address at the ceremony in place of the president.
"Not A but B". You are putting a fact right, and nothing stands in for anything.
The meeting is on Tuesday, not Monday.
ないでN4
Also "instead of", when the first thing is just skipped, not replaced.
My little brother does nothing but play games instead of doing his homework.
Check yourself
1Is this restaurant expensive?
この
Choose an answer to see why.
2Which one fits?
車を
Choose an answer to see why.
More detail
かわり is a noun too: a replacement, someone to fill in.
I'm looking for someone to cover my shift tomorrow.
More sentences
I paid by card instead of cash.
Instead of going by car, I took the train.
Instead of using meat, I put in plenty of mushrooms.
I gave the report in place of a colleague who was absent.