お・ ごpolite prefixes; "your …"
お and ご go in front of a word to make it polite. On the other person's things they are a respectful "your": お名前 is your name, never mine. On some everyday words, like お茶, they are just part of the word.
How to form it
お/ご + noun or adjective
お mostly goes with native Japanese words and ご with words that came from Chinese, but many everyday words break that. A word is best learned with its prefix.
A respectful "your"
With お or ご, the word belongs to the person you are being polite to, or about. That is why お名前は? needs no あなたの. Shop and hotel staff put one on nearly everything of yours.
Has your address changed?
What do you do for work?
Your luggage is here.
Thank you for calling.
It goes on adjectives about the other person too: お元気ですか, お忙しいですか, お上手ですね.
It comes off when the word is yours
The respect is for the other person, so your own name, family and health take no prefix. With friends it isn't needed at all: 名前は?, 元気?.
How are you?
Yes, I'm well.
Not said: 私の
(My name is Tanaka.)
田中です, or 名前は田中です.
Just the polite word
Some everyday words nearly always wear お or ご, whoever they belong to: お茶 (tea), お金 (money), ご飯 (rice, a meal), お酒 (alcohol), お風呂 (bath), お手洗い (toilet). My own tea is お茶 too.
I drink hot tea in the morning.
I don't have any money today.
The sweets from this shop are popular.
Without it some can sound rough: 金, 酒, and 飯 for ご飯.
お or ご?
| お: native Japanese words | ご: words from Chinese | お, although from Chinese |
|---|---|---|
| お名前 name | ご住所 address | お電話 phone call |
| お国 country | ご家族 family | お時間 time |
| お手紙 letter | ご意見 opinion | お食事 meal |
| お部屋 room | ご注文 order | お元気 well |
Most nouns take neither, and words in katakana usually don't: 駅, 会社 and コーヒー stay as they are.
お・ご before a verb
お or ご also opens a family of polite verb patterns. After it comes a verb's ます-stem (お待ち) or a する-noun (ご確認), and the ending tells you who is acting.
お・ご~するN4
Humble: something you do for the other person. The prefix honors them, not you.
I'll carry this luggage for you.
お・ご~ですN4
A short respectful way to say what someone is doing.
What kind of product are you looking for?
お・ご~いただくN3
You receive what the other person does as a favor. As a question, a formal request.
Could you please check the application form?
Check yourself
1You are talking about your own family. Which one fits?
私の
Choose an answer to see why.
2Which one is right?
( )
Choose an answer to see why.
More sentences
This is your seat.
Please tell me your opinion.
I will confirm your name.