expression
being waited on hand and foot; having everything done for one
Describes a situation where someone is completely taken care of, especially with meals served and cleared away, so they need not lift a finger. Often used critically or enviously.
実家に帰ると、母が上げ膳据え膳で世話を焼いてくれる。
When I go back to my parents' house, my mother waits on me hand and foot.
彼は奥さんに上げ膳据え膳の生活をさせてもらっている。
He leads a life where his wife does everything for him.