出で損そこなう

godan verb (-u)

fail to go; fail to come

Used when someone misses an opportunity to go or come, or fails to appear as expected. Often implies a missed chance or inability to make it.

• 寝ね坊ぼうして、約やく束そくの時じ間かんに出で損そこなった。

  I overslept and failed to go at the promised time.

• 彼かれはいつも飲のみ会かいに出で損そこなう。

  He always misses the drinking party.