去さる者もの追おわず

expression

don't chase after those who leave

Proverb meaning one should not cling to people who choose to leave; often used to express a dignified, detached attitude toward departures.

• 去さる者もの追おわず、来くる者もの拒こばまずの精せい神しんでやっていこう。

  Let's live by the spirit of not chasing those who leave and not refusing those who come.