に言わせると・ に言わせれば・ に言わせたらif you ask …; to hear … tell it
You give someone's opinion as what they would say if you let them speak: usually a strong, confident view, and not necessarily yours. With 私 it is your own blunt verdict: "if you ask me".
someone else's view
If you ask Tanaka, rain like this doesn't even count as bad weather.
your own
If you ask me, this project still isn't ready.
How to form it
Person + に言わせると/に言わせれば/に言わせたら + their opinion
All three mean the same; に言わせたら is the most conversational and the least common. The person can be a group: 専門家, 子どもたち.
- Before it
- Someone with views of their own: 彼, うちの母, あの批評家, 私. Not a report, a survey or a forecast.
- After it
- Their verdict, put the way they would put it: 時間の無駄だ, まだまだだ.
- Tone
- Pointed. You often pass the opinion on with a raised eyebrow.
- Where you'll meet it
- Conversation, columns, reviews, essays.
In use
This ramen's good, isn't it?
Mm. Though to hear my dad tell it, this isn't ramen at all.
B is enjoying the ramen. The verdict is Dad's.
If you ask a veteran editor, this draft explains too much.
The way she tells it, the problem isn't the budget. It's how slowly decisions get made.
私に言わせれば: if you ask me
About yourself it is blunt, and often goes against what everyone else is saying. A measured view starts 私としては or plain 私は.
That film's hugely popular, isn't it?
If you ask me, it's just long.
Close neighbours
によるとN3
A source that told you something: the forecast, a survey, a friend. What follows is information, passed on with そうだ, not a verdict.
According to the weather forecast, it will snow from tomorrow afternoon.
から見るとN2
How things look from where someone stands. Nobody is heard speaking.
To an expert's eye, this difference can't be ignored.
にとってN3
What something is or means for someone: important, hard, a problem. Not what they think of it.
To me, this town is a second home.
Check yourself
1Which one fits?
天気予報
Choose an answer to see why.
2What is the person who says this doing?
祖母に
Choose an answer to see why.
More detail
Word for word it is "if you let them say": 言わせる is 言う in the causative. The plain causative, "make someone say", is still in use.
The director made the new actor say the same line again and again.
You will also hear 私から言わせれば, with から for に. Many people count it a mistake, and careful writers keep に.
More sentences
If you ask a chef, this fish is slightly overcooked.
If you ask that critic, being popular and being good are two different things.
Long-time users will tell you the old design was easier to understand.