あまり・ あまりの~にso … that
A feeling or a state is so strong that something follows from it, usually something you didn't mean to do: "so happy that I cried". What tells it from the "not very" of あまり~ない is where あまり stands, not whether a negative follows.
I was so happy that I cried.
It was so hot that just walking to the station made me feel ill.
After the feeling
Noun + の + あまり / Verb dictionary form + あまり
緊張のあまり, 心配するあまり. An い-adjective usually becomes a noun with さ first: うれしさのあまり. A な-adjective takes な: 熱心なあまり.
In front of a noun
あまりの + noun + に
The noun is very often an adjective with さ: 暑さ, 眠さ, 美しさ.
In front of an adjective or a verb
あまりに(も) + adjective or verb
"So", "far too": あまりにも暑くて.
- Before it
- A strong feeling: 緊張 (nerves), 喜び (joy), 怒り (anger), 驚き (surprise). Or a verb for being caught up in something: 心配する, 急ぐ, 集中する.
- After it
- What it did to you: you cried, froze, forgot, got something wrong. Not a request or a plan.
- Where you'll meet it
- Stories, news, essays, and people telling what happened with some care.
In use
I was so wrapped up in my work that I forgot to have lunch.
I was so angry that I crushed the paper I was holding.
I was so sleepy that I missed my stop.
Two things to know
A negative after it doesn't make it "not very"
I didn't sleep much last night.
あまり alone, in front of the negative: not much.
I was so worried that I couldn't sleep.
あまり after の: so much worry that sleep wouldn't come.
あまりに(も) in conversation
People say this one all the time. In a reason or a condition, bare あまり does the same job when its adjective or verb isn't negative: あまり暑いので, "it was so hot that". The end of a sentence needs あまりに(も).
It was so hot that I couldn't sleep.
Close neighbours
すぎるN5
The everyday way to say the same thing: すぎて, then what happened.
I was so happy that I couldn't say a thing.
ほど・くらいN3
Also "so … that", built the other way around: what it did to you comes first, as a picture of how strong the feeling was.
I was so nervous that my voice was trembling.
Check yourself
1What does this mean?
悲しみの
Choose an answer to see why.
2Which one fits?
( )
Choose an answer to see why.
More sentences
I was so nervous that I couldn't answer even when they asked my name.
I was so relieved that I sank to the floor where I stood.
I was so intent on making the deadline that I skipped the checks.
Being too cautious can sometimes cost you the chance to decide.
The shock was so great that for a while I couldn't speak.