女房
also: にょうぼ · にゅうぼう
Meanings
wife; one's own wife
Common, somewhat informal term for one's own wife; often used by men. Can sound old-fashioned or humble depending on context.
My wife is a good cook.
I got scolded by my wife.
court lady; female court attendant
Only with reading にょうぼう / にゅうぼう
Historical term for a woman serving at the imperial court; used in Heian and later periods. Reading is にょうぼう or archaic にゅうぼう.
Court ladies of the Heian period enjoyed literature and waka poetry at the imperial palace.
woman; love interest
Only with reading にょうぼう / にゅうぼう
Archaic use for a woman, especially as a romantic interest; found in classical literature. Reading is にょうぼう or archaic にゅうぼう.
In old tales, a woman is often depicted as a love interest.
Usage patterns
- 〈人〉が女房をもらうfor someone to take a wife (get married)
He finally took a wife.
- 女房に頭が上がらないto be unable to stand up to one's wife (henpecked)
My husband can never stand up to his wife.
- 女房を大事にするto treat one's wife with care and consideration
He always treats his wife with care.
Expressions
- 鬼の女房に鬼神a horrible man will find a horrible wife
- 女房と畳は新しい方が良いwives and tatami mats are best when new