愛想
also: あいそう
Meanings
amiability; friendliness; sociability
Refers to a person's outward manner of being pleasant, approachable, and easy to get along with. Often used in phrases like 愛想がいい (friendly/amiable) and 愛想が悪い (unfriendly/brusque).
She is always amiable and quickly becomes friends with anyone.
That clerk was unfriendly and gave a bad impression.
Used mainly in the set phrase 愛想を尽かす (to be disgusted with someone; to lose all affection for someone). Rarely used independently in modern Japanese.
See also: 愛想を尽かす
I became completely disgusted with his irresponsible attitude.
compliments; civilities; hospitality
Polite, often superficial, words or actions meant to please a customer or guest. Frequently appears in service contexts as お愛想 (polite compliments or hospitality). Sense 4 (hospitality/special treatment) is closely related and merged here.
See also: お愛想
The proprietress of the traditional restaurant saw the guests off with polite civilities.
That shop is so hospitable that it makes you want to go back.
Euphemistic term used by restaurant staff when presenting the bill. Almost always appears as お愛想. Not used by customers to ask for the bill (customers say お勘定).
See also: お愛想
The waiter said, 'Here is your bill,' and placed the check on the table.
Usage patterns
- 〈人〉は愛想がないsomeone lacks friendliness or warmth
He's not very friendly, so he gives a slightly intimidating first impression.
- 〈人〉に愛想を言うto say polite or flattering words to someone
The clerk buttered up the customer with compliments.
- お愛想になりますhere is your bill (staff's euphemistic phrasing)
Excuse me, here's your bill.
Expressions· 7
- 愛想よくengagingly; cordially; amiably; sociably; hospitably
- 愛想がいいaffable; amiable; sociable; agreeable
- 愛想の良いaffable; amiable; sociable
- 愛想が尽きるbe disgusted with; be fed up with; run out of patience with
- 愛想を尽かすbe disgusted with; run out of patience; fall out of love
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- 愛想を振りまくbe pleasant to everyone; smile at everyone; try to please everybody
- 愛想も小想も尽き果てるbe completely disgusted with; be absolutely fed up with; run out of patience with