恨うらみ

憎にくしみN1sense 1
憎しみ is active hatred or loathing, while 恨み is a lingering grudge or resentment stemming from a specific past wrong.
後こう悔かいN2sense 2
後悔 is regret over one's own past actions, while 恨み (sense 2, 憾み) is a more formal, often impersonal regret about a situation or outcome.
遺い恨こん sense 1
遺恨 is a deep-seated, long-lasting grudge used in formal or literary contexts, whereas 恨み is the everyday word for resentment.
怨えん恨こん sense 1
怨恨 is a stiff, legal/journalistic term for a grudge (often as a motive for crime), while 恨み is the common everyday word.

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仇あだ
恨み names the feeling of resentment or a grudge itself, while 仇 can refer to either that feeling or the person who is its target.
ルサンチマン
恨み is the everyday Japanese word for a grudge or resentment, while ルサンチマン is a borrowed philosophical term for a deeper, often powerlessness-driven resentment discussed in contexts like Nietzsche.
憤いきどおり
恨み is a deeper, often personal and lingering grudge, whereas 憤り is a more immediate reaction to unfairness.
悪あく意いN1
恨み is a grudge or resentment stemming from a past wrong, while 悪意 is the active intent to harm or deceive someone, regardless of cause.
憎ぞう悪おN1
恨み is a grudge or resentment arising from a specific wrong done to you, while 憎悪 is a broader, more intense hatred that need not have a specific cause.

Opposites

感かん謝しゃN4sense 1
感謝 is gratitude and goodwill toward someone, the direct opposite of the ill will expressed by 恨み.
恩おんN3
恨み is a grudge or resentment, the emotional opposite of 恩, the gratitude one owes for a kindness received.

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逆さか恨うらみ
being resented by someone you resent; resentment from the person you hold a grudge against · resenting someone who meant well; misunderstanding kindness as ill will · unjustified resentment; unreasonable grudge
恨うらみ言ごと
grudge; resentful complaint; reproach
恨うらみつらみ
pent-up resentment; grudges and hard feelings
恨うらみ節ぶし
resentful song; song of resentment · resentful complaint; grievance
片かた恨うらみ
one-sided grudge; unilateral resentment

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恨うらみっこ
hard feelings; mutual resentment
恨うらみがましい
reproachful; resentful; spiteful

Written forms

恨うらみUsage73%
Standard kanji for resentment, grudge, and bitterness.
怨うらみUsage16%
Alternate kanji for resentment; less common than 恨み.
うらみUsage10%
憾うらみUsage1%
Used especially for regret or a matter for regret.
ウラミUsage1%

Etymology

Derived from the verb 恨む (uramu, 'to resent'). The kanji 恨, 怨, and 憾 all share the meaning of harboring negative feelings, with 憾 leaning toward regret.